there are multiple types of friends

this comes as no surprise that, well. there are multiple types of people, but a sub-category of those people are your very own friends :D


whether its the people you play random games with, or those you grew up with, or just a random person you bonded with over a common interest.


however, there are types of friends. some friends like when you open up to them, talk about your feelings, and are cooperative on the topic. some like when you open up to them, but don't know how to help, but they appreciate the trust. but some simply don't, they sometimes just don't know how, or find feelings/emotions cringe, or maybe other reasons that may be personal, which they might not want to share. this doesn't necessarily mean anything about how good you are as friends, but its something to think about when choosing who to talk to about certain topics, in my experience.


a scenario I've seen in many places including in my own life is the "do you want to be comforted or do you want answers" situation, basically how sometimes when a person opens up/vents they don't necessarily want answers to their issues, they just want to yap for a bit to let off some steam or to throw their thoughts into the air you often don't actually hear the question, but you can almost feel it sometimes. for me its something in the way a person acts, I guess it's more an intuitive thing.



anyhow first yap sesh wauw